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Life is a magic box. Very surprisingly happy and sorrows come together at times. Satisfaction and disappointment are both side of life but no wonder can come together, not always. There is no gain without pain, gain after pain really matters in life but no wonder they both come again and again usually and together. So that it is life. Nothing is certain but all of certain things happen in life. That is why life is magic box,...

News is news, no maters what meaning it is bringing about. Small things brings big happiness at time. I got such opportunity where I learned many things about me which are very useful to learn how to take life forward. I am happy with those people who are making news about me. Though the way people think of me makes me sad at time on the other hand it gives me positive vibe leads to the strengths. Thanks god there are many people...

Finally, land is registered. Initially, my plan was that I would register it in Kabita's name but later we realized the need to have it registered in my name because we want few more loan from Bank. Currently, Kabita don't have employment so it would cause difficulty to get loan in case we apply for it in her name. So it was mutual understanding for good reaso...

Friday, no special things has happened than usual work. As part of the work I attended a workshop Theory of change of Peace-building project which was organized by Care Nepal and International Alert in Park Village Resort. It was interesting and useful in many senses. One is, I understood what Theory of Change is which I deliberately wanted to learn. There are good participation from Ministry of Peace & Reconstruction. Member...

Nepal government seems to be restricted to issue new license to newly applied radio with intend to control the pressure from people as it's lacking frequency available for new radio particularly in urban area of the country. Minister of Information & Communication Mr. Shankar Pokharel said frequency management has become far challenge for ministry so they have made decision that no frequency with above 500 WT will be provided...

Many things are done today. It's already about 11PM I am looking tired and sleepy. I am thankful to my dearest friend cum brother who assured me that he will be providing few money to me tomorrow. Likewise friend Toya also sent assurance over message that he will try his best to get money to get the land registered. Person associated with Search called me today and asked why I haven't submitted application for job. I have decided...

It was expected to get few things done today but today seemed like worst day that nothing had happened as planned. Visit to the Arati & Company see the designs of low cost housing went on successful. I found low cost housing comfortable and easy to install. It is earth quake protected. Popular among the low earned people like me. Nice home with three to four room facility will set up in in the capacity of 700 to 800 sq fit...

I was feeling not well in the morning. Why? Kabita asked for reason. Nothing was that much serious so I refused to answer her. Was that any mistake she committed so that I was not happy with her? It was not true, I was worried just because the day for the registration of land that I bought nearly month ago was approaching fast, but I was not sure how to allocate remaining 2 hundred and fifty thousand rupees. I tried to borrow...

This is hard to believe the things happening to me these days. People are making noise about me and my personal and professional life. What do they think of me? Lazy or Crazy? Most probably crazy, rarely let other to rule him. Hahaha, so funny. I, however, started realizing that people are started recognizing me who am I. so that they stepped up to step me down or step me out. Anyway, this so funny as well as lesson learned for...

Two major festivals being observed this month ended finally. For me, Dashain ended with few sweet memories, Tihar, however, no wonder same thing happened in this Tihar as wel...

I decided to buy land at Lalitpur district, Thecho VDC 9, talloattarkhel. It was a sudden decision. I went to see the land that my brother bought few month ago. It was in beautiful location. I liked the place where he chosen. My elder brother encouraged me too. I had no other option than to explore few places where I should buy. Now I am worried how should I assemble the money as I don't have enoug...

positive attitude is strengths of human being. Being positive helps one understand the things and situation in way it is whereas negativity causes harms in everybody's lif...

Have you fun in Dashain? How did you celebrate it? for me it was fun. for the first time I traveled to Itahari in personal car that my brother belongs to. so that it was new experience for me. second my son was with us. he enjoyed a lot. I saw everyone was having fun playing with him at my parents and Kabita's parents home. I also spent a lot of time seeing him playing with stranger...

Hi all, My decision to keep me away from FB was temporary, I have comeback now since I can't control myself being away as it was addiction. Hahah...

Dear all, With my personal site I would like to confirm you that my Face Book account got deactivated now onwards. This is however, temporary decision. There are no such strong reason behind why I decided deactivating my account but I thought the freedom I exercised in the FB crosses maximum limits in terms of posting my own things, providing comments on the other posts and uploads so it led me think to take decision that I...

आज मलाई सम्बन्धको परिभाषा खोज्न मन लागेको छ । वास्तवमा के हो सम्बन्ध? कसरी जोडिन्छ यो र कसरी टुक्रिन्छ एकैछिन्मा? के ले सम्बन्धलाई जोडिरहन्छ र के ले यसलाई निमेषमै टुक्र्याउँछ । वास्तवमा सम्बन्धलाई लिएर आज म घोत्लिनु पर्ने कारणहरु धेरै छैनन् । तर एकादुई भएपनि ती कारणहरु बलवान छन् जसले गर्दा म आज घोत्लिन बाध्य छु । के मलाई समयले यस्तो बाध्यता थपेको हो? अथवा मैले आफ्नै कारणले गर्दा यस्तो अवस्था आएको हो? आज तीनबर्षपछि म फेरी एकचोटी...

एकैछिन अगाडि जुठेल्नामा बासिरहेको भाले रेडियोमा पो बास्यो । आम्मै रेडियोमा कुखुरा बासेको? हसिलो मुहारमा स्वादीलो खाना पस्किने सबैकी दिदी छक्कै परिन् । रेडियोमा बिहान ५ बजेदेखि एकएक घण्टाको अन्तरमा भाले बास्न थालेको थियो । कतिपय ठाउँमा कुखुराको भालेलाई घडिचरो पनि भनिन्छ । यसैले रेडियो मकालु धनकुटाले पनि समय बताउन कुखुराको भाले प्रयोग गर्ने निधो गर्यो । यो भालेलाई अम्मर बनाईयो । सहकर्मी संचारकर्मी कुल प्रसाद राइले भने । उनको बिचार...

न त रित्तिन्छ, न त सिद्धिन्छ, साथमा छौ तिमी माया जति साटेपनि, न त दुख्छ मन, तिमी हुदाँ झन, शब्दका धारले जति काटेपनि । न त आत्तिन्छु, न त मात्तिन्छु, औधी प्रशन्न म, तिमी साथी पाइरहदाँ, न त डराउँछु, न त हराउँछु, प्रेम गर्दैछु भनि तिमीले जति नै ढाटेपनि । न त ज्यान हुन्छ, न त प्राण नै, एक्लै पारी तिमी, बीलाई गैहाल्यो भने, न त बिर्सिन्छु, न त तर्किन्छु, साथमा भुलाई मलाई, जति नै टाढा राखेपनि । न त पिउँछु रक्सी, न त लिन्छु नशा,...

म विनय गुरागाईबाट किन विनय शेखरलेख्न थाले? सजिलो उत्तर छ मेरो, शेखर मेरो स्कुलको नाम हो, मलाई अहिले पनि मनपर्छ, स्कुलका दिनको अन्त्यतिर बिद्यालयमा भएको एउटा अप्रीय घटनामा मैले मेरो प्यारो नाम शेखरलाई सदाका लागि गुमाउनु पर्यो । मैले यही नाममा जिल्ला प्रशासन कार्यालय भोजपुरमा एकबर्ष मुद्दा झेलेको छु । पछि नौ कक्षामा पढ्दा रजिष्ट्रेशन फारम भर्दा साथीहरुको सल्लाहले ख्यालख्यालमा राखिएको नाम हो विनय । अहिले पनि मलाई परिवार तथा मेरा...

अनौठो मन कहिले फुरुङ्ग कारण बिना, कहिले खस्रक्क कारण बिनै, कस्तो कमलो? जसले जता लग्यो त्यतै जाने, जे भन्यो त्यही मान्ने छिनमै रुने, छिनमै हाँस्ने, कस्तो मन, अरुको इशारामा थाहै नपाई नाँच्ने । एउटा गभ्मिर प्रश्न आफैसँग के हामी मान्छेलाई ब्रम्हाले श्रृष्टि गर्या हुन्? अनि फलोअप प्रश्न पनि त्यसो भए ब्रम्हालाई कस्ले सृष्टि गर्यो होला? अनि तेश्रो प्रश्न, जसले जसलाई सृष्टि गरेपनि सृष्टिकर्ताले यो मनलाई ढुङगाजस्तो सारो बनाइदिएको...

मेरा एकजना अग्रज मित्रले भन्ने गर्छन् देश चिन्ने हो भने हिडौ, लामो बाटो छ यातायातको सुविधा छ भने स्थलयातायात प्रयोग गरौ, हैन भने मात्र अर्को बिकल्प खोजौ । वास्तवमा यात्रा जुन तरिकाले गरेपनि बिभिन्न ठाउँको भ्रमण गर्नु गज्जबको सिकाई हो । गएको मे २०१० को पहिलोसाता बंगलादेशको ढाकाबाट शुरु भएको मेरो यात्रा जुनमा देशका बिभिन्न भागमा केन्द्रित थियो । जुलाईको पहिलो साता पाकिस्तानको इस्लामावाद र कराँची पुग्ने मौका जुर्यो । अनि नेपाल फर्किने...

Thanks god, we are loving politics. Politics as such is not dirty game. But it's been portrayed as dirty game. I have seen most of Nepalese are disparately waiting to see how the politic takes a new turn. It's because people who didn't care about politics now are showing their interest in politics which is ultimately good choice of people to show concerns know politic...

स्वयंम्भु र बाँदर अस्ती शनिबार बिश्रुद र कवितासँग स्वयम्भु गएँ । झरीको बिचमा पनि चर्को घाम, उकालोमा छोरो बोक्दा उखान पत्याउने हो भने बाउको बिहे नै देखियो । पसिनाले निथ्रुक्कै । बाचा गरेको थिएँ छोरालाई बाँदर देखाउँछु भनेर । बनकालीमा बाँदर हेर्न नपाएको बिश्रुदले स्वयभ्मुमा बाँदरलीला हेरेर आनन्द लिन्छ भन्ने पुर्ण विश्वस्त थिए । स्वयंम्भुको डाँडोमा त्यति आनन्द आएन, सायद मान्छे धेरै, उभिने ठाउँ थोरै भएर होला । कता कता चारबर्ष अगाडि...

Sitting in the Benazir Bhutto International Airport, Islamabad, this is most memorable time for me read a book 'BENAZIR BHUTTO, Daughter of the East, biography of Bhutto, the book I was desperately looking for, bought at airport bookshop. I am on the way back to Kathmandu via Karanhi, I found this book as a very good fried of mine for this such a lazy trip despite feeling alone, however book is helping me kill time. She writes...

इस्लामावाद शहरको तुलनात्मक रुपमा लो प्रोफाइलमा रहेको हिलभ्यु होटलमा छिर्ने बित्तिकै ठुलो क्रिनमा टिभी संवाददाताहरु कतै लाइभ त कतै रेकर्डेड समाचारहरु दिइरहेका थिए । फुटवलको चासो कम थियो, तर चासो र चर्चा थियो अघिल्लो दिन अर्थात जुलाई १ मा लाहोरमा भएको दर्दनाक सुसाइड बम हमलाको । कुनै कुनै च्यानलहरुले त हमलाकारीहरुले कसरी हमला गरे भनेर ऋऋ ऋबmभचब ले खिचेको तस्विरलाई महत्वका साथ देखाईरहेको थियो । हमला दर्दनाकै थियो । झन्डै ५ दर्जनको...

People are nice, place is beautiful, no traffic jam bigger and bigger roads I thought and thought, compared with my town Kathmandu and finally reached to the conclusion that we are far behind in infrastructure developed. When I left Kathmandu for Islamabad today afternoon I was worried thinking that where I am traveling is considered risky areas in terms of security, suicide bombing, killings. Last night also it happened suicide...

I am not sure how the town is, and not for sure how the people are, I just heard nothing more than political instability the country is facing for many years.The country is not far away from where I live. Tomorrow I am going there but not sure I am whether Face Book is banned or ope...

Ekantipur/काठमाडौ, अषाढ १६ - सरकार गठन गरेको १३ महिना पछि प्रधानमन्त्री माधवकुमार नेपालले राजीनामा दिएका छन् । बुधबार साँझ राष्ट्रका नाममा सम्बोधन गरी प्रधानमन्त्री नेपालले राजीनामाको घोषणा गरेका हुन् । उनले राष्ट्रिय सहमति निर्माण कार्यमा कुनै सहमति हुन नसकेकौ उल्लेख गर्दै शान्ति प्रक्रिया र संविधान निर्माण कार्यले पूर्णता पाओस् भनेर राजीनामा दिएको उल्लेख गरेका छन् । 'सरकारले व्यवस्थापिका-संसद्मा नीति र कार्यक्रम तथा बजेट...

भाग्यमा ममात्र हैन तपाई पनि विश्वास गर्नुहुन्छ होला । हिजो इङ्गलीस टिमले हार्यो आज धेरैजनाको कुरा गर्ने बिषय थियो, उनीहरुो लक (भाग्य) बलियो थिएन, अस्ति नै स्पेन हार्यो, त्यस्तै सुनियो । इटली र फ्रान्समात्र हैन हार्नेहरु सबैको भाग्य कमजोर हुनुपर्छ त्यसो भए । सायद हामी नेपालीहरुको भाग्य सारै कमजोर र दुःखी छ, मध्यरातमा हाई काड्दै ब्राजिलको खेल कुर्नुर्नुपर्ने । के हाम्रो भाग्यमा यस्तो कुरा लेख्या छैन हामी काठमाण्डौ, भेडेटार, रुकुम,...

Media and Conflict sensitivity! how should I prepare an article with 6 pages? It is big task for me. However, I haven't said I can't do. Yes, I can write a good book. I can make it. Thanks Action Asia Nepal network, though your decision taken in today's meeting is somehow challenging I can complete my job within deadline. This is for sur...

'Sorry Upendra, it seems that this time it won't happen', not surprisingly holding his phone in hand Upendra said 'oh, unfortunate'! Yes, it's unfortunate this time that we won't take visiting journalists to Prime Minister's office in a way we did last time. Rumor is that he has almost decided to quit, but by when, nobody knows except himself. My organization Equal Access (www.equalaccess.org) is organizing educational tour for...

May 1, 2010 Flight time was not that much longer than just 1 hour and 10 minutes from Kathmandu. As If I am in domestic flight. But reality is I was in international flight. On that day when I left Kathmandu thousands of people in red-shirt were passing through the street in Kathmandu chanting slogan against government. I thought I should have postponed my traveling day to Dhaka but it was not in my hand as I had to reach there...

जिन्दगी कहिलेकाँही सारै दिक्क लाग्दो हुदो रहेछ । मनमा जे जस्तो उत्साह र उमंग भएपनि त्यसलाई त्यही रुपमा कायम राखिरहन मुस्किल पर्दोरहेछ । सोच्छु एकथोक, हुन्छ अर्को थोक । खुशी खोज्न सारै गारो । गीत सुनेको थिएँ शान्ति खोजुँ म कहाँ? अहिले मलाई त्यस्तै लाग्छ खुशी खोजुँ म कहाँ? हाँसो खोजु म के मा? मसँग सबैथोक छ र पनि मलाई आज लागिरहेको छ म एक्लो छु । मेरो कोही छैन । भएकाहरु पनि मेरा हुन् भन्ने मलाई पटक्कै लागिरहेको छैन । मानौ म एउटा...

June 14, 2010 I met Susal, friend of mine. I met her in Vermont when I was there attending three week long CONTACT program in SIT Graduate Institute Vermont USA in 2009 June. She is here with the aim of accomplishing her university research on non-violence and dialogue in peace-building. I briefly provided her my opinion on current political deadlock, and few interventions initiated by civil society. In the evening I met Tulsi...

BANDIPUR – Time and again, I heard the name of place 'Bandipur'. Have you been to Bandipur? No! Why haven't you been? You should have gone there? Bandipur is such a beautiful place people often term it queen of mountain. Indeed such a nice place, please make your visit….. and more; hit my ear for many many years. Finally, a day has come made my dream came true. Yes, I made it. 9th, 10th and 11th of June 2011 at Bandipur Moutain...

हामी कति निराशातीर जादैछौ भनेर अब हामीलाई कसैले भन्नु नपर्ला जस्तो लाग्छ । एउटा सामान्य नागरिक जो बिहानदेखि बेलुकासँग हातमुख जोर्न संघर्ष गरिरहेको हुन्छ, एउटा मध्यमबर्गिय परिवार जसोतसो समाजमा इज्जतिलो जिन्दगी जिउन चाहिरेको हुन्छ र उच्चबर्ग जसलाई निम्न र तल्लो बर्गिय समाजमा के हुदैछ कुनै चासो छैन, न त चासो लिने ध्याउन्न नै । सबै बर्ग आज खशि छैन । निराशा धेरै छ । अत्यास बढ्दो छ । कारणहरु थुप्र्रै हुनसक्छन् । त्यसमध्ये केही यहाँ...

POLITICS – no more words from leaders please! How pity we are? Time and again, we are misled by our political leaders. It's been for many years our fate is relied on to them. But what they did is just nothing than they proved to politics is dirty game. It seems that leaders know what politics is but they even don't how to do the politics. Our fate is considered for them just a football for which it have been throwing, and keeping...

This is almost 7 pm. Time to go home. I can just remember how desperately my son is waiting me would be. He usually identify the sound my bike makes, and opens door. He is getting older, clever and clever. He is honest than before. Try hard to persuade me and his mom. Yes, I should go. I have to go. Kabita was calling me why haven't I called her today? Nothing than just my busy schedule contributed for that. Anyway, she might...

I AM TOTALLY BLANK TODAY AS I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT HAS HAPPENED IN THE AREA OF POLITICAL DEVELOPMENT TODAY IN THE COUNTRY. My day started with a cup of tea, and with good morning kiss of my wife. My son gave me good morning hug with his usual smiling face. I then, went to college to meet my thesis supervisor seeking his input on the paper submitted. It has been long gap I have met college friends but today I did. Arun and Shusila...

It's been complete nine (9) years king Birendra passed away. I am remembering the day curfew was imposed in valley –angry policeman was running behind a boy, chasing him on the street Maitidevi. Scared boy entered in to the home where I was leaving in rent. Frightened by found no other way than entering in to toilet thinking there is no other safe mean to save him from police stick and boot. Angry police personnel saw him going...

2nd republican day is observed yesterda...

Should I write, shouldn't write. No you should write. I should tell people what I think about me. My love, my society. My country. Country?? Uff… I can't write about country. No! I can write about country but that is not about politics. Yes, its true that as an active citizen of this country I can understand what politics is meant for me! Politics for me is not other than honesty, respect other's view, allow people to feedback...

May 28, 2010 Friday will be remembered as an another black Friday in Nepal's history forever. Today was scheduled to endorse new constitution of federal democratic Nepal but it was not done. Reasons are ; Political parties in-difference towards this issueInstability Maoist activities International pressures Civil society in-difference on issue and more......

श्रीमतीले फोनमा भनिन् आज नगए हुन्थ्यो । फ्लाईट क्यान्सिल भैहालोस् । के भनेको त्यसो? मैले त्यो भन्दा धेरै केही भनिन् । सोचे क्यान्सिल भएपनि के भो र, आफ्नै घर फर्किने त हो नी । छोरा पनि एकाविहानैदेखि बाबा तिमी आज अफिस नजाउँ भन्दै थियो । तर १२ः३० बजेको बुद्ध एयरमा जनकपुर जाने तयारीका साथ पौने ९ बजे म लागे अफिसतीर । नियमित मिटिङ सकेर अफिसबाट...